"There's One or Two That Just Won't Listen to Me!"

Even though the school year just began, if you're like most teachers I know, you are already feeling the panic of testing looming in the air...  Stay calm. Those few students who seem to be struggling with the routines and procedures need your help the most.

Four Strategies for helping students who are struggling with the demands of school...

• Meet the student at the door.  Look in his or her eyes and quietly address him or her.  Ask if there is anything you can do to help the child feel ready for school.  Remind the child that you're on their side and looking forward to a great day together.

• Write the student a personal note.  It only takes 1-3 minutes.  Fold it up and pass it to him or her as the morning begins.  Your note might say something like, "I'm counting on you.  I know you can do it!"

• Plan a luncheon with the student.  You might say something like, "I noticed we are having a hard time getting along in class.  Can we have lunch together and talk about it? I think we can make it better."

• Encourage the student before transitions.  As you line your students up for a transition to a special remember to leave enough time to remind them about your expectations while they are there.  Remember that they look to you, like a parent, to guide their behavior even when you are not in their presence.  Crouch down and make eye contact with a student experiencing challenges and whisper words of encouragement. "I want you to come back and tell me one thing you did to show you can control yourself in Mr. X's class.  I can't wait to hear about it."

• Support the student at the end of the day.  Before students leave, find a way to check in and ask them how their day went.  Be sure to make direct communication with any child you know is struggling to get along with others or to follow the classroom rules.  Point out one thing you noticed he or she did that you would love to see more of tomorrow.